Piercings.

So i want to get my cartilage pierced and I asked my mom,"if I pay for it will you sing the forum that says I can have my cartilage pierced?" he immediate answer was,"no". I was puzzled because usually the answer is ask your father. But this time it was a direct no. So i proceeded to ask why not but got no answer. Then I asked my dad through a text message would he sing the paper. He said why cant your mom. So im caught in a loop hole of the asking both parents the same question. This is helpful at times because they have different opinions. But my parents like to put up the united front. So no matter who I ask I get the same answer. My dad said he cannot answer this over text when he is at work so i must wait till he gets home (he will not be home until after 12 o'clockish) when i will be in bed. So I am stuck waiting until my parents have had an entire night to discus what the answer will be. Talk about bad timing on my part.

I do not see what the big deal is it is my body, and it is not permanent. I will be paying for it in all ways, I will feel the pain and  I will be literally paying for it. I will also be the one who has to deal with the consequences if it gets infected. I do not understand. when i ask to dye my hair of for anything else the answer is ask your father. So i do and we talk and I might get what i want. But this time their is no thought of event discussing the matter. It is a solid no.

So we shall see what becomes of this after i talk with my dad who I don't think personally has a problem with me doing this. Fingers crossed!